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Helicopter parent

A helicopter parent (also called a cosseting parent or simply a cosseter) is a parent who pays extremely close attention to a child's or children's experiences and problems, particularly at educational institutions. Helicopter parents are so named because, like helicopters, they hover overhead, they do not stay long, and then they leave, only to return.

Although some parents describe themselves with enthusiasm as "helicopter parents," this trend is ironic, as the phrase "helicopter parent" is almost exclusively pejorative when used in journalism and other media.

Contents

  • Origins 1
  • Literature 2
  • See also 3
  • References 4
  • External links 5

Origins

The metaphor appeared as early as 1969 in the bestselling book Between Parent & Teenager by Dr. Haim Ginott, which mentions a teen who complains: "Mother hovers over me like a helicopter..."[1]

It gained wide currency when American college administrators began using it in the early 2000s as the Millennial Generation began reaching college age. Their baby-boomer[2] and Generation X parents in turn earned notoriety for practices such as calling their children each morning to wake them up for class and complaining to their professors about grades the children had received. Summer camp officials have also reported similar behavior from parents.[3]

cell phone for the explosion of helicopter parenting — having called it "the world's longest umbilical cord".[2] Some parents, for their part, point to rising college tuitions, saying they are just protecting their investment or acting like any other consumer.[4]

Literature

Madeline Levine has written on helicopter parenting. Judith Warner recounts Levine's descriptions of parents who are physically "hyper-present" but psychologically absent.[5] Katie Roiphe, commenting on Levine's work in Slate elaborates on myths about helicopter parenting: "[I]t is about too much presence, but it's also about the wrong kind of presence. In fact, it can be reasonably read by children as absence, as not caring about what is really going on with them ... As Levine points out, it is the confusion of overinvolvement with stability." Similarly, she reminds readers that helicopter parenting is not the product of "bad or pathetic people with deranged values ... It is not necessarily a sign of parents who are ridiculous or unhappy or nastily controlling. It can be a product of good intentions gone awry, the play of culture on natural parental fears."[6] Dr. Clare Ashton-James, in a cross-national survey of parents, concluded that "helicopter parents" reported higher levels of happiness.[7]

See also

References

  1. ^ Dr. Haim Ginott (1969), Between Parent and Teenager, p. 18, New York, NY: Scribner. ISBN 0-02-543350-4.
  2. ^ a b Briggs, Sarah; Confessions of a 'Helicopter Parent' (PDF), retrieved May 1, 2006
  3. ^ Kelley, Tina (2008-07-26). "Dear Parents: Please Relax, It's Just Camp".  
  4. ^ Alsop, Ron (2008). The Trophy Kids Grow Up: How the Millennial Generation is Shaking Up The Workplace. Jossey-Bass.  
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  7. ^ Helicopter parents' have more meaningful lives, study finds"'". Telegraph. Retrieved 2013-11-06. 

External links

  • August 2005 Wall Street Journal article on helicopter parents at colleges.
  • Roots, wings & helicopters. From USA Today.
  • Overbearing Helicopter Parents Keep Tabs. From the Minaret (student newspaper).
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